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Playing the victim:
I have been following this whole Ciara/Future relationship. What a lot if people don’t know is that at the time Ciara got with Future, he already had a girlfriend who was pregnant or had just had a baby. A girl he was living with even at some point. That lady’s child is about a year old now (if he is even up to that yet). Ciara brought this upon herself. She even went as far as going back and forth with the woman on twitter. Yes, they were fighting over Future on Twitter. Let that sink in. Ciara is FOUL. She looks classy but she is not. O/W, how would u even entertain a man with all these out of wedlock children? A man whose girlfriend HAD JUST GIVING BIRTH when you got yourself pregnant for him? What does that make you? She got exactly what she deserved. This new Tyrina Lee girl just did to Ciara exactly what Ciara did to Brittni (Future’s last baby mama before Ciara). I don’t feel sorry for her cause she is dumb & irresponsible herself. Not a victim
LOL There’s like 5 baby mamas now!!! Gotta make that money to pay yo bills!!!
I feel sorry for the children in all of this. They don’t deserve to be cast aside, ignored or used as pawns.
This is just crazy…
So here’s a fact… none of *Steve’s family have ever seen his daughter – except his father who has only seen her once. She was four years old at the time, and will be eight this October.
Steve himself, has only seen her a total of three times, the last of which was in December 2011 – but only because I encouraged him. I made sure money was set aside for the trip, because I didn’t think it right that he had only seen her twice before.
The only reason his father and step mother have met Max, is because being a responsible parent, I was the one who got in touch with them (not the other way round) so they could be in their grandson’s life. He was eighteen months old by then, and they had only seen pictures of him, which I had sent to them – not Steve.
Well, we all know how that turned out because their son Steve has another child on the way, with yet another woman, although he doesn’t support the two he already has, and his last child is only a year old. And this is something they encourage.
But then again, this sort of behaviour is normal for *Steve’s family, isn’t it? According to him, his father did the same thing.
It’s one hell of a messed up family, when they can easily use people and discard them as and when they please – especially defenceless ones, such as children.
Blog of a Mad Black Woman 
I came across this article last night, and I must say, I am not surprised. A number of months back, when I read that Ciara was pregnant for Future, I was thinking “She’s the fourth ‘Baby Mama’ and she won’t be the last”- not that I was hoping they would break up. (I would just like to point out, that I loathe the term ‘Baby Mama’, but it is such a common term these days).
You see, I agree with Judge Judy. Although it can be said vice versa too, (not her exact words but) if a man has a child with one woman, and it didn’t work out, then OK, fair enough. He meets someone else, hoping to be with this person for the rest of his life. So, they have a child, making her the second woman he has had a child with. Past that point, forget it, because the man is just having children for the sake of it with as many women as possible. And especially of the man does not pay child support for the children he already has.
Future’s child with Ciara was born in May this year. They broke up three months after their son’s birth in August. His child with a third woman was born in December 2013 (according to what I have read. Please correct me if I’m wrong). He is also in hot water with regards to Child Support.
This sounds very similar to my situation. My (ex) husband had a four year old daughter when I met him. By the time our son was born, his daughter was six years old. I walked away from *Steve when Max was three months old. Now, only a year old, he has yet another child on the way with a third woman.
Steve and *Britney have lived their lives how they’ve wanted to, without acknowledgement of their responsibilities – to include him buying her an engagement ring just six weeks after they got together, (when our son was only five and a half months old), dining out, buying clothes, etc, with no thought to their current three children – how they are clothed, how they eat, get medication – nothing. Not to mention that Steve himself, is shunning his responsibility of paying Child Support for Max and his daughter. (Please note, he was paying Child Support to his daughter when we met and for most of our relationship as he was in the Army. I would never knowingly get with a deadbeat).
I cannot get my head around this growing “trend” of multiple mothers and fathers. Here are a few comments on the subject:
somebody, somewhere, 3 weeks ago
I kinda saw this outcome coming, especially with the song with Kanye where they bragged about women being trophies and sex objects. Like a typical rapper, It gave away how he viewed women. Not forgetting the fact that he has 4 baby mamas.