“Forgive And Forget” – I Always Knew This Was Wrong And It Is Narcissist Behaviour

“I find it very sad, that so many grown adults, cannot own their issues, their sins, their abusive behaviours. And narcissists never will.” ~ Healing From Complex Trauma and PTSD/CPTSD

Healing From Complex Trauma & PTSD/CPTSD

 

I see so clearly how this is a typical narcissistic trait – it gives abusive people the perfect way to abuse others and then demand you just forgive and forget – with no consequences to the behaviour.

I see clearly how church people/religious people LOVE to use this to do as they wish, have no consequences to their behaviour, have no repentance and put the full responsibility on the person hurt – to do the forgiving – and call them a bad Christian if they don’t.

Abusive religious people love cheap grace and demanding forgiveness – with no repentance. And projecting blame onto the victims. And telling you, you are wrong to feel angry about the abuse/lies you have endured.

I’ve known since I was a child, that people not dealing with their behaviours appropriately, is wrong.

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