The Heart of the Matter

“It’s the ability to love bomb you basically to death, to drawn you into their world of pure toxic HELL.” ~ Sociopath Life/Hell by Tela

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What truly is the Heart of the Matter when you are involved with, or apart from a Sociopath? What answers are you seeking? What is the number one most painful emotion you are feeling this very moment?

We have established so many character traits/personality traits i.e. Pathological Liar, Cheater, Blame Shift, Toxic Poison, the ‘masks’ they hide behind {especially Female Sociopaths}. The way they so easily just disappear, only to reappear and act as though nothing happened!  and So why is it you just simply cannot get over this horrific pain? Why is it ONE person in your entire life has created a living nightmare? How did this happen?

These 2 statements I’m going to write, I want you to write them down & DAILY remind yourself of these:

1. YOU DID NOT CREATE THE SOCIOPATH 

2.YOU CANNOT FIX THE SOCIOPATH

Sure, you want to believe…

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Silence is Better Than Bullshit

“Silence is better than bullshit, then and only then, will you begin to slow your brain down, stop the spinning thoughts of Sociopath bullshit, and have moments of peace.” ~ Sociopath Hell

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I wrote an article Titled ‘Escaping The Noise’, you can read that HERE.

Often times, after you have been discarded or ended the relationship with the Sociopath, some of them slither back into your life like a poisonous snake! And they do this because you allow it to happen. Your so emotionally broken, mentally a disaster, and the only way you ‘feel better‘ is when you have contact with the Sociopath. WRONG THOUGHT PROCESS! All that contact does is feed you more of their bullshit!

If you have to co-parent with a Narcissistic Sociopath, and you hear “you didn’t pack the right snack for school, you didn’t have the homework complete, your emotional instability is damaging the child, you (_________) fill in the blank, is all Bullshit. By listening to their rants about everything YOU are doing wrong as a parent, can and often times leads to…

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Discounts

You have been silently isolated from your friends/family because the Sociopath demands (is exhausting) most, if not all of your time and attention. ~ Sociopath Hell

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When you read the word ‘discounts‘ you probably are thinking….discount on a tangible item. That is not the discount I will be talking about in this article.

How did we ‘discount‘ our self to the Sociopath?? After the honeymoon phase, and their real personality came out, you started to be discounted. You wanted sex, answer could be: “why do you always want sex, why is that all you think about etc.”? So you ‘discount‘ that to ‘well maybe they are tired, not in the mood‘ or whatever ‘discount’ you gave them. You decided you wanted to eat at a particular place, nope! You were given a list of reasons/excuses why ‘we can’t go there, why do you always pick that place, I don’t like the food {yet during the honeymoon they had no problem with it}. So you ‘

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Red Flags

“I’m sure you were told thousands of stories lies about their ‘horrible childhood’. {red flag} And how many times did they refer to the ex victim partner before you, as “the crazy-ex” {red flag}.” ~ Sociopath Hell

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‘Why didn’t I see all the RED FLAGS ?’ Such a common question when dealing with a Sociopath. The red flags were present from moment one…..so why did you not see them? Wait a minute, you did!! 

Think back to the very first moment you met the Sociopath. How easily you were drawn to them. In the first few days, weeks or even months, everything about them was lies , perfection. The showering you with praises, adoration, compliments on everything about you!Those were the red flags , that you were not consciously aware of. As with most narcissistic Sociopaths, they moved the relationship along very quickly. The love bombing was over the top!! I call the love bombing phase: Sociopath Poison, you can read about that here. 

I’m sure you were told thousands of stories lies about their ‘horrible childhood’. {red flag}  And how many times did they…

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