The narcissist can see when you’re gaining strength, fed up with their mind games, physically and mentally exhausted from them. They either play nice until they get back in control or they discard you… go ghost/abandon you. This is like their punishment for you seeing right through them… finding them out. They have to be surrounded by supply that can’t see the real them.
@Narseexposer via twitter
When they can’t break you, they try to get on your team and cheer for you. Never let your guard down with these types of folk. They are waiting to pull you back in to that dark space you fought hard to pull away from.
@Narseexposer via twitter
It is normal to miss them, but please don’t go back to a toxic relationship, that you exhausted yourself trying to keep together simply because you miss them… What exactly are you missing?? The lies, turning on you, treating you like the enemy, making you feel like you can never measure up, always frustrated, never making time for you.
@Narseexposer via twitter
Narcissists don’t grow. They just pull you down to their level of darkness and pain. It is only up to you to gain the strength and pull yourself out. It is only up to you to become motivated enough to never turn back. Their plan is to keep you on their level of misery. Never accept that.
@narcseexposer via twitter
No they haven’t changed. Yes, their playing nice is very temporary. Yes, if money is involved, they are motivated to fake longer than normal (the ones that don’t have any). Yes playing nice to get something is exhausting to them. No, thy don’t feel the normal way we feel. Yes, they have observed enough to tell you exactly what they think you want to hear. Yes, it is a lie.
@narcseexposer via twitter
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