Lunch Time

Maximus Octavian

Mummy took Max and Uncle Ricky (who is actually is Godfather), out for lunch. Upon receiving the menu and it being read out to him, Max asked for chicken goujons with salad.

This little boy loves his juice! First he had a cup of apple, followed by orange, as he patiently waits for his food to arrive.

Can you spot Teddy’s ‘paw’?

Lunch would not be complete without all these vehicles being brought along. However, they were left abandoned in favour of playing with Lewis (Ricky’s dog) who came along.

Man to man, Max and uncle Ricky having a chat about what fun they will have, when they next meet. ❤

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Giant Truxx Digger

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Mummy is not a fan of taking Max shopping with her, and here’s why. He must choose something he wants every single time – even when she says no. It started with sweets/candy. Then small toys (namely cars). From there, magazines with toys. And now this.

This gives you an idea of how big it actually is! Luckily, he carried it back from the supermarket by himself. Although to be fair, he was comfortably sat, whilst mummy pushed him around in his buggy.

A message from Max: “Hello everyone! I am not wearing this t-shirt due to the EU Referendum results. It is merely a coincidence. Even though I told mummy a number of times that I did not get a chance to vote, let’s face it, I am to young to do so. I would be very grateful if politics were not brought to my blog. Thank you!…

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Another Day, Another Ice Cream

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In jolly ol’ England, we are never guaranteed sun. Rain, yes. Sun, no. When the sun is out, Max loves to run around in open spaces. As it had been raining the night before (again!), upon our visit to the park, there were large puddles everywhere. Unlike the last time, mummy was not going to give him a chance to run around in the mud.

This didn’t mean there was no time for another round of ice cream though! Max refused to try a different flavour. So here he is again folks, making a mess with his favourite blue stuff. 🙂

For Bubblegum Flavoured Ice Cream, click here.

For Ice Cream Time, click here.

For Another Day in the Park, click here.

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The Big Scam – and the steps to accepting the truth!

“The agenda on the Narcissists part is to create a powerful, distorted belief, which keeps their target/victim from moving on or keeps them locked up in such confusion, chaos and crazy making.” ~ After Narcissistic Abuse

After Narcissistic Abuse

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @http://www.amazon.com

“No one will ever love you as much as me.” “You’ll never find anyone as wonderful as me.” “You’re crazy if you think anyone else would want you.” “You don’t know how lucky you are that I put up with you.” “You will find out the truth one day and then you will see what you HAVE LOST.” Has anybody ever heard statements similar to these? Well this is what was said to me more often than I care to remember. The Narcissist wants us to swallow these lies hook, line and sinker and then they may even remind us of a handful of good memories (or what THEY perceive were good memories.) The agenda on the Narcissists part is to create a powerful, distorted belief, which keeps their target/victim from moving on…

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Understanding your role with a Narcissist in practical terms that will explain WHAT being ‘supply’ to a Narcissist really means!

“The Narcissist even sources out their minions to support that they are innocent in ANY wrong doing so they can bury you alive with more lies or that infamous smear campaign!… They will leave their biological children behind as well so they can move on to their next source and a new family and community to support them. These creatures JUST DON’T care because everyone is just an object.” ~ After Nacissistic Abuse

After Narcissistic Abuse

From my Book – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist! @ Amazon.com

Narcissistic supply is MANY things but basically any emotional or physical attention, energy, help, support, sympathy, acknowledgement or approval that you give to a Narcissist for any reason, be it positive or negative. It is ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that FEEDS their obsessive, and insatiable need for attention. Remember that they have basically tricked you into their world with such superficial charm or love bombing to harvest you like a farmer harvests their many crops. There is NO love, NO real relationship, NO reciprocation, NO respect given to you as a person, NO CONNECTION whatsoever, just complete nothingness! Yes it seems that they are a HUGE and viable part of your life as in reciprocating with emotions, empathy and LOVE, but the HUGE part is that they are only a façade and you…

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