Can’t Hold Us Down

I’ve been listening to (all sorts of) music more so than usual recently (old and recent). I guess I need to still my mind with the amount of nonsense I’ve had to deal with lately.

I’ve prepared myself for another round, just in case CJC starts again. Actually, this post is for you as you stalk my blog.

When a female fires back suddenly big talker don’t know how to act
So he does what every little boy would do
Makin’ up a few false rumors or two
That for sure is not a man for me, slanderin’ names for popularity
It’s sad you only get your fame through controversy
But now it’s time for me to come and give you more to say

Remember, I’ve won each time you’ve thrown shit at me. You simply cannot beat me. You cannot win. I warned you not to play with me, but if you wish to continue…

I’m fucking ready.

Your move.

This is for my girls all around the world
Who have come across a man that don’t respect your worth
Thinkin’ all women should be seen and not heard
So what do we do girls, shout out loud
Lettin ’em know were gonna stand our ground
So lift your hands high and wave ’em proud
Take a deep breath and say it loud
Never can, never will
Can’t hold us down

(Not the best video, but hey, the song gets the message across).

Will You Marry Me?

Sometimes, I come across some really interesting emails. This is one of them.

Bearing in mind, I’ve never spoken to this person before, he’ll be waiting for a reply for eternity, because he’s definitely not getting one from me!

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So Called Latino Cheater ~ Part Three

“So called Latino cheater32m

Tela, don’t be silly… I did not ” troll” in the internet looking for this blog. Steve sent me the website and told me to read about all the lies she was blogging about. But it’s ok keep seeing her as the victim. She needs the attention and approval of her followers to feel better about herself and her cold heart.

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So, as I said in my previous post, of course Steve would send her the link to my blog, to “read all the lies”. Everyone lies except him. Funny that.

Again, I will ask, how would I know about any of this had he not told me? It really is baffling how she cannot take a step back, and look at the bigger picture – not to mention, she herself is twisting my words. But, I know what was said to me, and I certainly know, that my original post did not slag her off. I’ve obviously hit a raw nerve about something Steve has told me. As I said before, when he wanted to spite her about my pregnancy, I told him he was wrong, and I will continue to think so.

I “was” a victim. I am now a survivor. 🙂

I don’t need approval nor attention from anyone. I’m not forcing anyone to read this – unlike Steve trying to get people to believe his lies and succeeding with the like of you.

A cold heart is someone who speaks to you, gloating about your misfortunes as he did to you during my pregnancy.

He also told me about paying for your return flights three times to go see him, but you were a no-show at the airport each time, because you were too busy sleeping around. I guess that’s my fault too, eh?

The truth will out, no matter how long it takes, and all will see what type of person he truly is.

So Called Latino Cheater ~ Part Two

“So called Latino cheater4m

I do know the proper use of your and leave, but it so happens that you aggravated me to the point of me being in tears, and of course I know you do not care. I will not give in to this foolishness with that being said this will be my last post. I have no interest in giving you “Fame” so try to get good ratings out of this one. My question to you is: Did it feel good to bring up the fact that I am not able to have children? You obviously know how to spell but what you know not about is RESPECT for other people and what they go through. The fact that you seem so hurt about what Steve did to you and how this blog is suppost to be for women that have been abused but yet you find pleasure in hurting me emotionally. It’s ok Persia, after this message I will not allow you to disturb to the peace I have in my heart. I am not able to have children but I am an AMAZING women. I have learned from my pain and my mistakes and have moved on to a wonderful life with a man who loves me greatly. Hopefully you will be able to feel and experience that kind of love someday. I do not. Care if you decide to reply to this post or not since I will not visit your blog again. I did speak to Steve about this today since we have remain friends all of these years so yes Persia I know all about you but I will be the bigger person here and leave it at that. I came to the conclusion that you are in need of attention so I will not give you the satisfaction of wasting my time any longer. Don’t flatter yourself honey I replied to this because I owed it to myself not get a rise out of you. Hope that you and your 3 followers get a kick out of this one. (; Best regards!! From a BLISSFUL and HAPPY Latina who made better choices in her life than you.”

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Yes folks, there is a part two.

Once again, she shows her capability of being able to read.

Fame? What fame? Because I’ve decided to tell the truth of what has happened to me and what has been said to me?

“Did it feel good to bring up the fact that I am not able to have children?” – I’d like to know where at any I indicated that it felt good. The last time I checked, I was merely pointing out that *Steve had said a lot of bad things about you, and that he was happy you contacted him to gloat about the fact that I was pregnant and you were unable to have any children. How is this me being happy about your misfortune?

What I know not about is respect? No, you don’t know about respect, otherwise you would not be throwing around accusations as you are.

Don’t tell me what my blog is supposed to be about. It’s not supposed to be for women. It’s supposed to explain what I went through, and to let any man, woman or child know they do not have to suffer in silence. That’s why the sub-title is “Speaking Out About Domestic Abuse”.

I don’t see how what I have said has hurt you emotionally, because it was not I who said it in the first place – it was *Steve, your so-called friend who spread this information around. Perhaps you should have another chat with him…

I know full well is “OK”. I have never spoken ill of you, and you clearly are incapable of basic reading skills, and to think for yourself, which is why you haven’t stopped to think how I knew about you in the first place. The only person who disturbed the peace in your heart is the same one you are believing, and who created this mess in the first place.

You mean to say you are a wonderful “woman” not “women“.

There is no hopefully about feeling love. I feel it everyday from family, friends and my son. Thanks for the concern though.

You won’t visit my blog again, but I can see you have sent yet another message… hmm…

If you can still call Steve a friend, then that’s up to you. A friend would not have said all those things he did about you.

I didn’t communicate with you first, remember that, so you re only wasting your own time.

I’m not flattering myself – you are, because you think I pulled all the info I  know about you out of thin air. I do feel for you.

I don’t have three followers – those are just the people who have like the post so far. Many more have read it too. I have over four hundred followers, so please…

You know all about me from what Steve has said. I know all about you from what Steve has said. I know all about his family from what Steve has said. I know all about his friends from what Steve has said. Doesn’t mean they’re true, so you run along now and believe whatever you wish.

You made better choices than me in life? One of them being to believe the person who slagged you off? Off course he’s going to lie and send you the link to my blog. He knows you can’t think for yourself and need people on “Team Steve”, whereas I don’t need to recruit anyone. He is desperate to get as many people as possible on his side. Oh, and three of the best choices I’ve ever made in my life is 1) having my son, 2) leaving lying Steve when my son was twelve weeks old before he turned onto his own son (as he started to, shouting at a ten week old baby for having an upset stomach because the noise stopped him from being able to sleep) and 3) not believing the lies that you continue to believe.

Unlike you, I don’t need a man to make me complete, nor do I have to remain friends with someone who does not care about me – so much so, that he would spread information about me like he has done to you – because I am not desperate.

Take care of yourself now.

So Called Latino Cheater…

I awoke in the early hours of this morning to find this message pending for approval. Half asleep, it did make me wonder how some people can get angry and uptight about something which was not slagging them off in any way.

“The Early Gifts From Him

So Called Latino …Jul 2, 5:28 am

Who do you think you are??! If you don’t have your facts straight you shouldn’t be talking so openly about me. You have no idea who I am or what I went thru, therefore you should just stick to blogging about your personal experience and live me out of that equation.

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Now I’m not going to spend too much of my time writing about just how stupid this comment is, because it really isn’t worth it. But I will say this. “So Called Latino Cheater…” clearly did not read what I had written properly, if in fact at all. For if she did, this comment would never have come about. I clearly stated that it was what *Steve had told me. I also furthered the point by saying “As he says the story goes…”. By opening with these statements, anyone with even one brain cell would know that it was something he had more than likely made up. I never said they were facts. How else would I even know you existed if he hadn’t said something about you? Have you stopped to think about that?

Just like he told me that you had contacted him in the early half of 2012, and said it was perfect timing as he wanted to talk to you, so he could tell you I was pregnant “to spite you because he knows you cannot have children”. Of course I thought this was outrageous, and thought this was the lowest of the low and told him so. Again, how would I know about this had he not said something to me?

So, my dear child, not only do I know who I am, therefore, I do not have to think about it, but I do not wish to know anything about you. I never have, but I was with someone, who unfortunately felt the need to tell me about all sorts of bad things about others – to include you because he wanted others and me to feel pity for him. Also, I don’t have any idea what you went through, but again, I don’t really care to be honest.

What you should do is take a seat, and don’t tell me what to do. I have not used your name, even though I know it. I have not spoken openly about you, so don’t flatter yourself. If you’re pissed off, then I suggest you take up your issues with Steve. By trying to take it out on me, you are just participating in his foolishness, and encouraging his behaviour therefore, becoming an enabler.

Oh, one more thing… “thru” is spelt “through” (it always has been), and “live” I believe is meant to be “leave“.

Not sure how you came across it, but thank you for visiting my blog – my stats increased quite a bit! I do hope you stop by again.