I have been so busy preparing for my son’s third birthday tomorrow, Christmas and getting my life back on track, I’ve not had much time for anything else. I need more hours in the day!
I shall be catching up with your blogs this evening/tonight, but may not be able to read everything you have published. Please do not feel offended by this.
I hope you are all having a great day.
Much love. ❤
I swear this is what my son thinks his Teddy Bear does.
No matter where he goes, he is rarely seen without it.
When he’s upset, he asks for Teddy.
When He’s ready for bed, if he can’t find Teddy, hell breaks loose.
When I take him to the dentist, Teddy must come along.
When he awakes in the morning it’s “TEDDY!” until it’s found.
It’s amazing how a child can think s/he is protected, or is even invincible with their favourite comfort toy or blanket.
It is cute though. ❤
Classic by Otis Redding
‘These Arms of Mine’
These arms of mine they are lonely
Lonely and feeling blue, these arms of mine
They are yearning, yearning from wanting you
And if you would let them hold you
Oh, how grateful I will be
These arms of mine they are burning
Burning from wanting you, these arms of mine
They are wanting, wanting to hold you
And if you would let them hold you
Oh, how grateful I will be
Come on, come on baby,
Just be my little woman, just be my lover
I need me somebody, Somebody to treat me right
I need your arms, loving arms to hold me tight
and I need, I need your tender lips
That’s right – these two are now parents to a fourth child between them in total.
*Britney is twenty-three with two children by two different fathers, and her first child is being looked after by someone else.
*Steve turned twenty-seven two weeks ago, and has three children by three different women. He is arrears with Child Support. As the new child was born in October, it means he was a father of three by the age of twenty-six.
The twist? Our son Max is only ONE year old!
Steve used to call me ugly…
…I feel sorry for the child having to look at these faces every day.
I have been following this whole Ciara/Future relationship. What a lot if people don’t know is that at the time Ciara got with Future, he already had a girlfriend who was pregnant or had just had a baby. A girl he was living with even at some point. That lady’s child is about a year old now (if he is even up to that yet). Ciara brought this upon herself. She even went as far as going back and forth with the woman on twitter. Yes, they were fighting over Future on Twitter. Let that sink in. Ciara is FOUL. She looks classy but she is not. O/W, how would u even entertain a man with all these out of wedlock children? A man whose girlfriend HAD JUST GIVING BIRTH when you got yourself pregnant for him? What does that make you? She got exactly what she deserved. This new Tyrina Lee girl just did to Ciara exactly what Ciara did to Brittni (Future’s last baby mama before Ciara). I don’t feel sorry for her cause she is dumb & irresponsible herself. Not a victim
LOL There’s like 5 baby mamas now!!! Gotta make that money to pay yo bills!!!
I feel sorry for the children in all of this. They don’t deserve to be cast aside, ignored or used as pawns.
This is just crazy…
Blog of a Mad Black Woman 
I came across this article last night, and I must say, I am not surprised. A number of months back, when I read that Ciara was pregnant for Future, I was thinking “She’s the fourth ‘Baby Mama’ and she won’t be the last”- not that I was hoping they would break up. (I would just like to point out, that I loathe the term ‘Baby Mama’, but it is such a common term these days).
You see, I agree with Judge Judy. Although it can be said vice versa too, (not her exact words but) if a man has a child with one woman, and it didn’t work out, then OK, fair enough. He meets someone else, hoping to be with this person for the rest of his life. So, they have a child, making her the second woman he has had a child with. Past that point, forget it, because the man is just having children for the sake of it with as many women as possible. And especially of the man does not pay child support for the children he already has.
Future’s child with Ciara was born in May this year. They broke up three months after their son’s birth in August. His child with a third woman was born in December 2013 (according to what I have read. Please correct me if I’m wrong). He is also in hot water with regards to Child Support.
This sounds very similar to my situation. My (ex) husband had a four year old daughter when I met him. By the time our son was born, his daughter was six years old. I walked away from *Steve when Max was three months old. Now, only a year old, he has yet another child on the way with a third woman.
Steve and *Britney have lived their lives how they’ve wanted to, without acknowledgement of their responsibilities – to include him buying her an engagement ring just six weeks after they got together, (when our son was only five and a half months old), dining out, buying clothes, etc, with no thought to their current three children – how they are clothed, how they eat, get medication – nothing. Not to mention that Steve himself, is shunning his responsibility of paying Child Support for Max and his daughter. (Please note, he was paying Child Support to his daughter when we met and for most of our relationship as he was in the Army. I would never knowingly get with a deadbeat).
I cannot get my head around this growing “trend” of multiple mothers and fathers. Here are a few comments on the subject:
somebody, somewhere, 3 weeks ago
I kinda saw this outcome coming, especially with the song with Kanye where they bragged about women being trophies and sex objects. Like a typical rapper, It gave away how he viewed women. Not forgetting the fact that he has 4 baby mamas.