Hi Grammy!

(I’ve blocked her real name).

Everyone, this is *Steve’s mother. Yes, the one I cut ties with, along with the rest of the family back in June, due to their back stabbing, hypocritical ways. She started following me on Google+ on September 1st ~ a little over two months after I stopped communicating with her, and blocked her and the others on Facebook and Twitter.

So this is a message to her, and I suggest this:

Go stalk *Britney who now calls you “Mom”, despite you wanting me to reunite with your crazy, wife beating, abusive son Steve at the same time you befriended her. (Click here for part two on some of the abuse I endured, which is one of the main reasons I left him). The same son who shouted at a ten week old baby (our son Max) because his upset stomach was making Steve unable to sleep. The same son, who doesn’t even support the two children he already has by two different women, yet he has third child due with a criminal. You and the rest family must be so proud!

And whilst you’re at it, calling her “Sweetie” and saying how she has a “Beautiful smile”, don’t forget to tell her that Steve has anger issues because of me ~ just like you told me that he has anger issues because of *Dawn, his daughter’s mother.

Rather than watching what I’m doing, perhaps you and Britney should sit down an have a wonderful conversation about her stint in jail for shop lifting whilst pregnant for another man (twenty-two and has two children by two fathers… her slackness fits in well with your own family), whilst you can tell her how you surfed the internet and found men to use for money – just like you apparently left Steve’s father in debt, not to mention you wiped out your current husband’s funds who is over twenty years older than you.

I guess this is where Steve get’s that part of his attitude from, thinking it’s better to date women older than him, so they will look after him financially and otherwise, whilst he does nothing. But it didn’t work for him though, because none of those women would put up with his shit – to include me. And that is one of the reasons he ended up with what his eldest sister *Anna calls “A Gap-Toothed Beast“.

Let me tell you a secret. Come closer to the screen so I don’t shout it out. I’m sure what with the façade the whole family puts on, you wouldn’t want this out in the open…

You’re ALL bat-shit crazy!

LinkedIn

I wonder who this could be?

I have my suspicions on a number of people, who could possibly be spying on my LinkedIn profile.

So, this is what I have say:

Spy away.

I have nothing to hide… unlike you.

Unlocking Someone Else’s Prison

I have exposed my abuser. Why? I have spoken of my experiences. Why?

Because I cannot and will not tolerate Domestic Abuse being brushed under the carpet.

I don’t care that I’ve stalkers. I don’t care that my son’s father’s side are acting like they are one big happy bunch, who couldn’t possibly cause harm to others. I don’t care that they are no longer in my life, because if I did, I wouldn’t have severed ties with the hypocritical pack of mentally deranged ‘beings’ in the first place. And I sure as hell don’t give a damn, that I will never see any of those two-faced monsters again.

What I do care about is my son. He is out of and away from that fake situation and has enough love to last him for eternity. This goes without saying – I love my son dearly. However, if he grows up and behaves in the same way his father has, he will make an enemy out of me. I will not condone such behaviour – unlike *Steve’s family. Just because he’s my son, it doesn’t make it right. In this instance, I would have to disagree with the saying that “Blood is thicker than water”. I cannot and will not wilfully sit back and let someone suffer like I have and turn a blind eye to it.

What I do care about, is that by exposing my experiences, those who believe they have to stay in such a soul destroying situation, will be strengthened by my story, by my words, and have the courage to leave the abuse – even if they have children. One does not have to stay with a partner just because s/he is the mother or father of their children. I had my first and only child with my (ex) husband, and left his abusive ass when our son was just twelve weeks old. I had no money. No food. No home. A few items of clothing between my son and I. Not to mention I was in the US whilst my support system (family and friends) were in the UK. And I’m not going to lie and say “Yes, just do it, it’s easy”, because it isn’t. It’s hard. Really hard. I’ve had help from family and friends, from a Domestic Abuse/Violence centre, a Church who raised funds so I could buy my son and I food and clothes. It’s been really tough.

But I made it. I made it through what I thought was impossible. And so did my son.

I want to turn my pain into someone else’s  positive future.

Thank you to all my followers and visitors (to include the stalkers and cyber bullies!) for helping my blog get to where it is today. I really appreciate it. 🙂

Much love. ❤

Steve Stalking Me On Twitter

Earlier this year, *Steve started to stalk me on Twitter. In fact, he had created a different alias, which I blocked, so then he created another account @Steveitsyou, which I have blocked also (after responding a few times). To add to this, another alias was created – @Dantheman456745. This one was more ‘subtle’. However, I sussed it was him again, because of the style of writing. Also, as I looked into the history of his tweets, I noticed bar one, they were all to me. Not to mention, he private messaged me everyday. If he was a stranger, then why would he do that? So, I told him I no longer wished for him to contact me again, and the account was subsequently deactivated.

@Steveitsyou (23 Jan 2014) – @PersiaKarema: madam I am merely a concerned citizen

@PersiaKarema – @Steveitsyou: Right… well “concerned citizen” Won’t be responding to you again. It makes no sense that you would be so “concerned” with me.

@PersiaKarema (10:48 PM, 23 Jan 2014) – @Steveitsyou: Hmm, How about you pay child support for both children you don’t see, then the suspension will taken off your driver’s licence?

@Steveitsyou – @PersiaKarema: no madam I read and ask questions, that’s all, you’re simply very paranoid

@PersiaKarema – @Steveitsyou: And of course you wouldn’t have shown your true colours… yet. I’m the 1st person who’s been bold enough to rat you out 1/1

@PersiaKarema – @Steveitsyou: So of course you have to tread carefully to try and hide the truth. 2/2

@Steveitsyou (11:54 PM, 27 Jan 2014) – @PersiaKarema: but if he hasn’t shown those “true colors” with her or anyone else he’s ever been with, are they his “true colors” or what?

@PersiaKarema – @Steveitsyou: I wasn’t going to respond but… you almost broke your sister’s jaw, it has been confirmed by numerous people 1/2

@PersiaKarema – @Steveitsyou: And you went to strike the mother of your other child on numerous occasions. Not 2 mention telling her what she can/can’t do 2/2

 

I was having a conversation with one of my followers, and he interrupted with this comment:

@Steveitsyou (3rd Feb 2014) – @PersiaKarema @aglow111: gay

 

His final entry was at 5:20 AM on 5th February 2014:

@Steveitsyou – Perhaps it’s the people who make the most noise who are the fullest of poo

 

You’re a moron Steve. And I am here, laughing at you. Seriously, I am, and have been doing so for quite some time. 😀

His Eldest Sister Was My Main Informant

Oh yes, she was. Due to the time difference, I would get messages from *Anna at all hours of the night, telling me what *Steve and/or his girlfriend had been up to – without me asking. At one point, she even told me to keep the screen shots as evidence.

So before anyone else decides to accuse me of ‘stalking‘ anyone, know your circle.

Just saying…